January 27, 2021

Why heterosexual relationships are so bad for us, according to a sex researcher

Or why the homosexual movement is devoid of any truth. Or why humanity is so foolish they think they can rewrite history and truth. Or why people think they know better than the God that created them.

There's an article written with the same title as ours, in fact we copied it in hopes it ranks right by the original. If you haven't read their article yet, pause, go read it and then resume reading ours.

I wanted you to go read it so you understand better what we are talking about as we continue on. The reality is that the author and the article are completely devoid of intellectual honesty and both are filled with false and/or misrepresented information in an effort to reach conclusion that's a big fat lie.

First off the author references some obscure study done on women in Turkey in May 2020. Yes, in Turkey. Second the study concludes that while sexual desire and frequency increased during COVID, the quality and satisfaction decreased..... due to stress relating directly to COVID and not due to it being heterosexual intercourse. Third the study involved only heterosexual interactions, so obviously the results reveal data related only to such. You can't claim a study outcome is "finding a rise in lackluster sex — mainly among straight couples." when the study is only on straight couples and offers no comparison of non-heterosexual interactions.

Contradiction upon Contradiction

The article continues by quoting Jane Ward, "a sexuality and gender professor at University of California Riverside and author of "The Tragedy of Heterosexuality." Ward, who appears to have been a homosexual for most if not all of her life, claims to be an expert in heterosexual relationships. It's one thing to have an understanding, it's another to have lived it. Ward is not an expert and her work is guided by an obvious agenda.

The article continues bounce back and forth between how straight men engage in toxic masculinity, how they demean women, how much straight men and women dislike each other, and how lesbianism is the best way for woman. They paint this picture of heterosexuals as being boring, angry, dissatisfied, and more.

But Wait There's More!

It doesn't stop there. The article continues on by claiming that even marriage and gender reveal parties cause further harm because:

"Both weddings and gender reveals stem from the gender binary — the concept that there are only two genders, men and women — and the stereotypes that binary has instilled in virtually every aspect of our lives, from housework to career to sex."

The reality is that there are only two genders, not multiple. Gender is not based on societal constructions or ideas, but is based 100% on science, biology. One definition of gender defined it as:

Gender is used to describe the characteristics of women and men that are socially constructed, while sex refers to those that are biologically determined.

https://www.euro.who.int/en/health-topics/health-determinants/gender/gender-definitions

This is completely false. Again, Gender is not based on socially constructed characteristics. Instead according to the etymology, or history of gender, it derives from the Latin word Genus.

Gender Etymology: Middle English gendre, from Anglo-French genre, gendre, from Latin gener-, genus birth, race, kind, gender, sex (male and female)

https://www.etymonline.com/word/gender https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/gender

Context and understanding the origins of a word create our understanding of everything around us. So in truth, Gender, is a word based on science (biology) not social constructs. This inconvenient truth is always avoided by those attempting to redefine what gender really is.

Men are natural misogynists?

The article goes on to postulate that men are "subtly and explicitly" taught to objectify, mistreat, and abuse women. That this process produces toxic masculinity which is required in order for a heterosexual male to be a "real man". While some men are taught to behave in this manner, the majority of real heterosexual men don't agree or behave in such ways. The position they are presenting is both a lie and a stereotype, in which men are portrayed as angry womanizers who only seek to satisfy themselves.

Revisionist History abounds

So now we come towards the end of the article but what you're about to read is completely absurd and intellectually dishonest. It not only fabricates truth, but attempts to rewrite historical truths. I won't bother to dissect this portion, instead I'll share a video that a guy named Les Lanphere made pointing out some of the obvious issues. Watch it, learn, and be prepared.

What's Left?

The sad reality is that this is where we are in culture and society. Where truth is irrelevant, where one's feelings override fact, and where you can do whatever you want no matter how grotesque it is.

All of God's creation is depraved, so worldly thoughts on sexuality and life should not be surprising, even though it is. We all know how people are and trying to ignore it away won't stop what's coming.

as it is written:
“None is righteous, no, not one;
no one understands;
no one seeks for God.
All have turned aside; together they have become worthless;
no one does good,
not even one.”
“Their throat is an open grave;
they use their tongues to deceive.”
“The venom of asps is under their lips.”
“Their mouth is full of curses and bitterness.”
“Their feet are swift to shed blood;
in their paths are ruin and misery,
and the way of peace they have not known.”
“There is no fear of God before their eyes.”

Romans 3:10-18 ESV

Conclusion

Christians should denounce such world views. Not only does this type of philosophical ideology conflict with scripture, it also presents a very hateful view of men, heterosexuals, and marriage.

In the end God's word is true and is our guide. Studying scripture will enable you to recognize and defend yourself against these things.

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